Can These Adult Personals and Photos Be Real?

So, you're wondering where are the best in adult personals these days, where the people are real?

If you're like us, when you see some of these wild adult ads and photos at the adult dating sites below, you might be wondering if people are really out there looking for the same things as you are.

Well, we have been checking them out. Tough job, but someone has to do it.

We've made it easy to to check them out for yourself - here's what we think about the adult personals sites we've personally visited:

  • SexyAds: Some of the most jaw dropping adult personals anywhere. Below you'll see why we think it is the #1 choice of many, and what we found on a recent visit.
  • Below you can find out more about adult personals and watching your partner "doing it", at LavaLife. Hmmmmm...
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  • See below how you can go directly to adult personals for Latinas, Asians, Swingers, Lesbians, and more at Adult Friend Finder.
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  • But there is no question, whether you are male or female, if you are looking for something a bit on the wild side, you are not the only one, as you can see by taking a look at the adult personals at our favorite adult dating sites below.

    The internet has given both men and women the freedom to search for what they are looking for in adult personals, without many of the concerns they would otherwise have.

    We run across personal ads now and then that do not seem real - maybe the photo is too posed to be true, maybe the personal ad seems too "canned". But we think that overall, if you stay with these reputable sites, you'll avoid the scams.

    And as always, use your own best judgement.


    The Best in Adult Personals?

    We think SexyAds, is an adult personals site you have to experience, and many people seem to agree.

    They say you can contact nearly 400,000 singles (and non-singles) here. For adult personals, they seem to have it covered, from photo galleries of members, online sex magazine, and many articles and advice columns.

    Once you use the service, you start to realize how much there is here, that there is much more here than adult personal ads and photos, and a Naughty Photo Competition...

    Uh... Not that we really lingered in that area or anything.

    They have a regular newsletter and an online relationship magazine, SA Gazette, where you'll find columns on many topics, advice, tips and articles of special interest, like tips for writing ads and online dating safety. Topics also extend to the more erotic.

    Here are some current articles from SexyAds:

    Curing Loneliness

    One of the worst romantic problems facing many people is quite simply not having a partner to play with. We all have different needs with this one. Sometimes we want someone to relieve the sexual yearning. Sometimes we want a major love fest to bloom, whether it’s for a season of enchantment or a lifetime of devotion...

    The Value of Chemistry

    Are you questioning the validity of chemistry and it's value to your next potential relationship? Do you believe that you cannot have a successful long term, physical or sexual or emotional relationship with a person with whom you have NO chemistry?

    Well, a lot of us are asking these questions...

    For the full articles, click here to go to SexyAds. Do a free, quick sign-up, then click on "Magazine" at the top of the page, for this article or similar ones.

    We like the way they address the interests of women as well as men, to the benefit of both. For example, at left is part of a recent article on how to write adult personals to appeal to the ladies.

    We found these to be some of their best services:

    They have great personalized online support, with questions quickly answered by return email.

    Excellent Search & Browse Criteria - search by gender, age bracket, distance from you, body type, ethnicity, online status, and, uh...size...for VIP Kama Sutra members.

    Check out the Tailored Chat Rooms 16 separate chat rooms, arranged by sexual preference and interests, geographic location and age grouping. All members are actively seeking new partners and/or erotic fun.

    The site allows you to be totally anonymous and discreet until you're ready to reveal more about yourself.

    Free members have only a limited number of emails and ad replies. Although they say that free members have access to only G-rated photos, they probably meant to say R...we saw some very explicit photos before we became paying members! When you do upgrade, you have access to entire site.

    At right are some men who were online when we visted recently, ladies at the top, men below.

    Here are some comments from sexy guys and ladies who have joined:

    "I don't think any website responds to their customers so well and so rapidly." - CostaLiving.

    "Been here about a month, have had two great experiences and workin on more. Thanks!" - DrWhat.

    "I truly found my life partner, my soulmate, my best friend. Thank you!" - Mesha PA

    To see photos and adult personals at SexyAds, click here to join instantly for free - this is one of the best adult dating sites.


    By the way, if you want to send a free adult ecard to someone you've found in the adult personals, we found a great source - click here for adult ecards.

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    LavaLife is a favorite all around online dating site for many singles, and they have a great section for adult personals which they call Intimate Encounters.

    To give you a sense of what you'll find at Lavalife intimate Encounters, here is an excerpt of a recent article found at the site:

    Just do IT

    ...If a picture is worth a thousand words, then a live demonstration is worth thousands more – although in this case, it may just leave your partner speechless. Everyone has their own special technique; their own particular way of pleasing themselves, and trying to describe it to your partner is just not as effective as showing them. Sometimes there is a lot of subtlety involved in the stroking and rubbing – not to mention the squeezing, petting and pinching – that can best be conveyed visually.

    A female friend, who tends to be unabashed about these types of things, is a firm advocate of this kind of show and tell. Not only does she take the time to demonstrate her method to her partners, but she also insists that they do the same for her...

    ...Many admit to feeling a bit self-conscious at first, performing for their partner what they usually do in private, but with the right encouragement it can become an intense experience. Watching your partner lose their inhibitions and slip into the moment can also be a huge turn on...

    You can read the rest of this article here at Lavalife Intimate - Do a quick, free signup, and go to the article archives for this and other great articles. You'll find some great ideas for using the adult personals, and you'll be able to check out photos of the many sexy members there.

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    AdultFriendFinder is also one of the best sources we've found for adult personal ads.

    This site is Hot!

    Yes, they have an advice column written for and by members, a magazine with articles on, of course, adult dating, erotic experiences, fitness, and just about anything else you can think of.

    And now, you can go directly to your area of interest at Adult Friend Finder:






    Here's where some of the fun begins. We found a great area where you can rate nude photos of members, for free!

    Don't miss it.

    On 10/23/2002 FunLover12556 had these thoughts on his experiences in adult dating on this site:

    "I am back after a two-year hiatus from AFF. Based on my earlier experiences, I knew that this was the service I would return to one day...

    ...for the first couple of months, I struggled like many men who use this service. Then... I found my "voice" as it were, and became more confident, but at the same time less aggressive...

    For the remainder of the six months, I met five different women, and spoke with a few others electronically. Of these five, I had wonderful sexual experiences with four, and long-term relationships, vs. one nighters, with three. These lovers opened up many avenues of eroticism for me, as I did for them... Thanks AFF!!!!"

    Adult Friendfinder has a huge membership. To give you an idea, here is a recent screenshot showing the number of members in the US. There are many more in Canada, Mexico, Europe, and other areas as well.

    adult friend finder

    This site is definitely worth checking out. Click here to look at photos and search adult personals at Adult FriendFinder.

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    If you are looking for adult personals, you might also be interested in live adult video chat. If so, people tell us that for an unbelievable experience, you really have to try iFriends.

    At iFriends, you can find any type of chat subject or person you can imagine,although it is geared more to video chat than adult dating or adult personals.

    The adult area is especially extensive. It is also very explicit, so be prepared! The adult section has thousands of searchable home based webcams geared for every interest imaginable. For example, click here to see redheads who are offering video chat.

    Or, click here for live adult video chat with blondes!

    Check out Blondechic's video clip here - this is one hot lady!

    Tip - For totally uncensored photos and video, all you have to do is register, which is quick and FREE.

    There is almost no end to what you can find, since there are thousands of home-based webcams here.

    We found a way to go directly to a few more hot live web cam chat areas, to give you an idea of the variety available:

    Click here for web cam video chat with sexy Asian ladies.

    Ladies, click here for live web cam chat with straight guys home alone!

    Click here for live lesbian web cam.

    See also Adult Dating Tips: Who Will Women Sleep With on the First Date, or, What's Luck Got To Do With It?

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