Valentines Day Thoughts for Guys
...from David DeAngelo.
Well Happy Damn Valentine's Day!
OK, so I'm reading some "Valentines
Dating Tips" here on a famous website
And here are a few that stood out... the
"Leave your home and work numbers. No home
number and she'll assume you have a wife or
"Don't assume that just because you're out
with a beautiful woman, she knows how pretty
she looks -- she wants to hear it from you..."
"She expects you to know her eye color after
the first date..."
You know, they really should have called
this article "How To Be The World's Biggest
WussBag In Three Easy Lessons - So Much So,
In Fact, That No Attractive Woman Could Or
Would Ever Have You".
I can visualize it as I write this...
The editors of the online magazine all
sitting around the boardroom deciding on
which articles to use... not-a-one of them
being a single guy who's successful with
women... and then the "Leave your home and
work numbers" article comes in.
They all look at each other with the
"Yea, this is the SHIZZZZNIT!" look...
And the rest is history.
Ten million guys read it the next month
and all smile inside, eating it up like it's
the last lick of cookie dough in the bowl.
If I were writing these tips, I would
"If she has a slight suspicion that you have
a girlfriend, she'll be WAY more into you..."
"If you're out with an unusually beautiful
woman, make sure you bust her balls and tease
her about not being cute..."
"Make a comment early on about not remembering
what color her eyes were... and then blame it
on her somehow..."
Am I crazy?
Is there something wrong with me?
Am I a bad guy because I actually enjoy it
when women feel ATTRACTION for me... instead
of wondering whether or not I'm GAY?
I mean, I dig Queer Eye... but what I
learn from the show ends with food and
Look, if you've got a sweet, wonderful
girlfriend that you love, then congrats!
I'm happy for you.
Plan a wonderful dinner for her and a
night of wild monkey-lovin'.
Call her and say "Be ready tonight at 7.
Put on something nice. And wear those hot
shoes that I like...".
Get her a cute card, write her a note,
and tell her something wonderful.
But if you're NOT going to be spending
your Vday with a sweetie because you don't
HAVE one, then for GOSHSAKES, don't do any
of the WUSSY things that all of the
"relationship" gurus are talking about.
Here, let me make a psychic prediction:
In the next 24 hours, single men are
going to spend BILLIONS of dollars trying
to win the approval of women...
And 99.9% of that money will go to
If you step outside your door at about
midnight... and you're REAL, REAL QUIET,
you'll hear the unmistakable sound of
millions upon millions upon millions of
CHICKENS BEING SPANKED all across the
And if you don't step outside to listen,
then I KNOW WHAT YOU'RE DOING.
Look, attractive women aren't looking
for men who want to BUY their attention.
A woman wants a guy who is so fun and
so interesting that she wants to be with
him JUST TO BE WITH HIM.
Buying things for women in order to
make up for not knowing how to attract
them with your personality, communication,
and humor is a losing game.
Don't waste your time.
I can remember when I used to think
that I had to buy women jewelry, flowers,
and gifts to get their love and approval
I did that for years.
And it never worked very well.
Well, after spending the last several
years studying the secrets that "naturals"
use to attract women, I can see WHY it
never worked very well.
If you want to be one of the guys who
GETS all the gifts on Valentine's Day...
and who has his phone ringing off the hook
from women calling HIM, then I recommend
you check out my eBook and my Advanced
Dating Techniques program.
Inside, I'll teach you all of the steps
to turning the odds in your favor... and
how to meet the kinds of women that you've
And you can go download my online eBook right here...
and be reading it within a few
minutes from right now.
Valentine's Day is a pain for a lot of
guys. But it doesn't HAVE to be that way.
Take some action and take things into your
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